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Back to School: Self-Advocacy Tips for Students Who Stutter

8/8/2017

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By Alex Whelan 
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Back to school season fills children with a mixture of excitement and anxiety. They may feel eager to reunite with friends, participate in clubs, sports or other extracurricular activities, and to continue learning (even if they refuse to admit it!) On the flip side, they might be nervous about making new friends, getting accepted socially by peers, and if new teachers will be nice or mean. As children get a bit older, they might also worry about achieving good grades.

Inevitably, the first day of school arrives. Take a minute and try to put yourself in the shoes of a 4th grader on the morning of that first day:

In an effort to help everyone get to know each another, your teacher decides to go around the room for everybody to introduce themselves and share a fun summer break story. The anxiety builds as your turn approaches. “Hi, I’m…”, but to your dismay, your name doesn’t readily come out. You try starting with a different phrase, “My name is…”, again, nothing. You want so badly to say your name, a seemingly rudimentary task, but you are a child who stutters and your name happens to be one of the most difficult things for you to say. Finally, your name comes out after what seems like an eternity. How will your friends react to what they just heard? Will this set the tone for how you choose to participate for the rest of the year?

As speech-language pathologists, we can offer a child who stutters and their family several tools to help them minimize the negative impact of stuttering and develop healthy communication attitudes. This often starts with education and advocacy. For young children, the parents might take on much of the educating and advocating, while also exposing their child to useful approaches to help school staff “get it.” However, as they get older, parents can gradually relinquish this role to their child.

The following examples offer our students or clients who stutter ways to take an active role in creating a safe and nurturing environment within their school. I always share or remind students or their parents of these tips around this time of year:


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Teaching Teachers

8/19/2013

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I recently came across an article written in the NY Times about a student, Philip Garber Jr., and his experience with a particular college professor at the County College of Morris.  The article, Professor's Response to a Stutterer-Dont Speak, highlights how Garber was asked to hold questions for the beginning and end of class so he "does not infringe on other students' time."   He was also asked to respond to questions on paper, rather than raise his hand like the rest of the students.  He advocated for himself to the dean and was transferred to another class, where he is now able to speak freely. 

Although this is quite an extreme situation and there are many wonderful teachers that are very sensitive to the needs of students who stutter, this article still brings up the importance of educating teachers on stuttering.  Like parents, teachers are often trying their very best, but quite simply may not be aware that some things they are saying or doing are, in fact, not helping at all. 

Here are some tips for teachers: 


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                       Making Peace with the Phone

6/1/2013

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Whether or not you are a person who stutters, making and receiving telephone calls can be a source of anxiety.  Whoever invented text messages definitely had people who stutter in mind.  However, has text messages and social media sites helped us communicate more effortlessly, or have they created a way to put off the inevitable and therefore build up more tension around the idea of using the phone?

It's time to look Alexander Graham Bell in the eye (well, figuratively), and pick up that phone. 

1.  Practice, practice, practice!  Call restaurants and ask them their hours.  Call retail stores and ask them if they have a particular thing in stock.  Call when you know someone you're comfortable with is not available so you can practice leaving voicemails.  Call numbers that have voice activated systems and don't cheat and use the keypad option!  The more you practice for the sake of practicing, the less stressful it will be when you actually have to make a phone call because you will know what to expect. 


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    Brooke Leiman MA, CCC-SLP, BCS-F Director of the Stuttering Clinic at National Therapy Center
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